• Srila Bhaktivinoda Thakur wrote extensively about this subject. So I'll paste a portion of his teachings below, as I believe they'll be very instructive.

    The text below was written by Srila Bhaktivinode Thakur. Translated from Sri Gaudiya Patrika, Year 7, Issue 10 by the Rays of The Harmonist team. Published in English for the first time in Rays of The Harmonist No. 20, Kartika, 2009.

    Wicked People See Faults in a Vaisnava in Three Ways

    Pure Vaisnavas have no faults and therefore are above criticism. But those who do criticize them, blame them and vilify them wrongly are wicked. Such wicked persons hatefully criticize the Vaisnavas in the following three ways:

    1. They criticize all the faults that existed in a person before suddha-bhakti manifested in him. In actual fact, as soon as bhakti appears in one’s heart, all of one’s faults begin to quickly disappear.
    2. During the period of time in which any untoward propensities are being destroyed within the Vaisnava’s heart, wicked people take the opportunity to criticize him for any faults that may still remain in him.
    3. Although an exalted Vaisnava is never inclined toward faulty behavior, sometimes, due to divine providence, some unwarranted conduct may be observed in him. Though such faulty behavior can never remain a permanent habit in the Vaisnava, wicked people still criticize him for it.

    In this way, these heartless people lead themselves to their own doom by committing the wicked deed of blaspheming a Vaisnava. Therefore, in the book Namatattva-ratnamala, it is said:

    prag bhakterudyaddosah ksayavasista eva ca,daivotpannasca bhaktanam naivalocyah kadacana
    saduddesyamrte yastu mrsapavadameva ca, dosanalocayatyeva sa sadhu-nindakohadhamah

    “One should never reflect upon the faults of a bhakta—namely, those that were present in him before bhakti awakened in him, those that temporarily remain during the time when his heart is purified through his practice of bhakti, and those that may appear in him accidentally due to providence. One who reflects upon any of these faults, not with a good-hearted purpose but rather with slanderous intent, is a blasphemer of saints and is extremely degraded.”

    Criticism of a Vaisnava’s previous faults is abominable

    O readers, any faults that were present in a Vaisnava before the onset of bhakti should never be reflected upon, unless there is some good-hearted purpose in doing so. A Vaisnava should not be criticized for the insignificant remnants of his previous faults. This is why Sri Krsna has said in Bhagavad Gita, 9.30-31:

    api cet suduracaro, bhajate mam ananya-bhak
    sadhur eva sa mantavyah, samyag vyavasito hi sah
    ksipram bhavati dharmatma, sasvac-chantim nigacchati
    kaunteya pratijanihi, na me bhaktah pranasyati

    “Even a man of abominable character who engages in loving service performed with one-pointed dedication (ananya-bhajana) to Me is still to be considered a saint due to being rightly situated in bhakti. He quickly becomes virtuous and attains eternal peace. O Kaunteya, declare it boldly that My bhakta never perishes.”

    It is offensive to criticize a Vaisnava for his waning faults or for any fault that appears by providence

    By the influence of bhakti all the extremely abominable kinds of behavior that may have existed in one’s heart before the awakening of bhakti and have gradually become one’s acquired nature (nisarga) diminish day by day and are finally destroyed within a very short time. Therefore, criticizing a Vaisnava without a virtuous motive, because of the presence of such waning faults, results in vaisnava-aparadha. Even if one observes some accidental fault in a Vaisnava that occurs due to divine providence, one should still not criticize him. In this context, Sage Karabhajana has said:

    sva-pada-mulam bhajatah priyasya, tyaktany abhavasya harih paresah
    vikarma yac cotpatitam kathancid, dhunoti sarvam hrdi sannivistah

    “That person who engages in exclusive bhajana of the lotus feet of Sri Bhagavan, having left all else, is most dear to Him. Even if the tendency to engage in some sinful, forbidden act somehow appears in his heart, Paramesvara Sri Hari, who resides directly within his heart, not only destroys those tendencies but also removes any reaction that would have come as a result of having committed some sin.”Srimad Bhagavatam, 11.5.42

    The underlying principle is that wrongly blaming and criticizing a Vaisnava for any of the faults just mentioned, which fit into three categories, leads to nama-aparadha, offences against the holy name. If one commits nama aparadha, a sphurti (divine revelation) of nama will never take place, and without such sphurtis it is not possible to become a Vaisnava.

    The faults of others can be deliberated upon if one has a virtuous motive

    At this point, an opposing argument may arise: would it be appropriate to deliberate on a fault found in a Vaisnava that is not counted among the three types of faults just mentioned? The answer is that no fault other than these three types can exist in a Vaisnava. If someone has faults that do not fit into one of these three types, then, according to the revealed scriptures, they cannot be called Vaisnavas.

    We should consider that without the right motive, it is inappropriate to reflect even impartially upon the faults of any living being, what to speak of Vaisnavas. To blaspheme Vaisnavas is an offence, but even blaspheming other jivas is a sin. Vaisnavas have no interest in performing such a sinful act.

    However, provided one has the right motive, the scriptures have not condemned a careful critique of someone’s faults.

    Proper motive is of three types: desiring the welfare of the person criticized, desiring the welfare of the world, and desiring one’s own welfare

    There are three types of proper motive:

    1. If the intention in analyzing someone’s sins is to ensure that he attains his ultimate welfare, then such reflection is auspicious.
    2. If the motive behind reflecting on someone’s sins is to benefit the whole world, then this is to be counted as an auspicious act.
    3. If such reflection is undertaken for one’s own spiritual welfare, then it too, is auspicious. There is no fault in such reflection.

    When one reflects upon the historical accounts of personalities like Valmiki or Jagai and Madhai in light of one or more of these three virtuous motives, then such reflection is never the cause of incurring sin. When a disciple humbly asks his spiritual master to instruct him on how to identify a Vaisnava, the spiritual master, desiring the welfare of his disciple and of the whole world, explains that those who exhibit unholy behavior are non-Vaisnavas. He thus points out how to identify true Vaisnavas through antithesis.

    With the motive of encouraging one to accept the shelter of the lotus feet of a true Vaisnava by abandoning false, so-called preachers of religion, one neither risks committing blasphemy of saints (sadhu-ninda) or vaisnava-aparadha (offence to Vaisnavas). In such cases, even criticism directed at a specific person is free from fault. These are all examples of criticizing with the proper motive.

    To Abandon Bad Association and to Accept Association of Devotees

    O readers, you must all contemplate this profound subject with the utmost care. As an irrevocably established principle, you must offer all respect to true Vaisnavas and invariably abandon the association of non-devotees. If one criticizes the true Vaisnavas, the existential reality of the holy name will not manifest in one’s heart. Thus the instruction has been given in Srimad Bhagavatam (11.26.27):

    tato duhsangam utsrjya satsu sajjeta buddhiman
    santa evasya chindanti mano-vyasangam uktibhih

    “For all these reasons, intelligent people reject detrimental association and associate instead with saintly persons. This is because saintly personalities, with their powerful and virtuous instructions, cut unholy, material attachments from the heart and thus dispel all the distress they cause.”

    It is only possible for a madhyama-adhikari to serve saintly persons. Unrighteous activity is corrupting.

    You should not think that by serving a non-devotee, considering him to be a saint, you will get the benefit serving a true saint. The reason the madhyama Vaisnava, as mentioned before, is the only one who is able to truly serve saints, is because the kanisthaVaisnava (neophyte) is not yet inclined toward serving saints, while the uttama Vaisnava (topmost Vaisnava) does not see the difference between a saintly man and an unsaintly one.

    O readers! You are madhyama Vaisnavas, and are therefore duty-bound to search out and identify a saint and then befriend him. It is also your duty to shower mercy upon those who are non-devotees, or in some cases, neglect them. You will be at fault if you abandon your own adhikara (rightful position).

    The instruction of Srimad Bhagavatam, 11.21.2 in regard to vice and virtue is this:

    sve sve’dhikare ya nistha, sa gunah parikirtitah
    viparyayas tu dosah syad, ubhayor esa niscayah

    “Steadfastness in carrying out the duties of one’s own, rightful position is declared to be a good quality, whereas deviation from the duties of one’s position is considered a fault. In this way, the two are clearly ascertained.”

    Even if you unintentionally fall into bad association, you will become an offender to bhakti. As said in Srimad Bhagavatam, 3.23.55:

    sango yah samsrter hetur, asatsu vihito’dhiya
    sa eva sadhusu krto, nihsangatvaya kalpate

    “Even if someone falls into ungodly association due to his ignorance, such association still leads to degradation. But in the same way, even if someone finds himself in the association of saintly persons accidentally, such saintly association very easily leads him away from bad association and cuts his worldly attachment.”

    The uttama-bhaktas’ glory of seeing everyone as saints is proclaimed in holy books such as Bhakta-mala and Prapannamrta. However, such conduct should never be imitated by a madhyama Vaisnava. For a madhyama Vaisnava, such behavior would lead to the fault known as anadhikara-cesta—not acting in accordance with one’s eligibility, or position—and he would rapidly become degraded as a consequence.

    May the suddha-bhaktas mercifully deem our discussion of all these subjects to have been properly motivated.

    • OK. So I am the "wicked one". So in the future, if I see someone stealing from the Deities, I should just ignore the situation and look the other way.

      • E-Counselor

        Not at all mataji. What you have done is what I would have done in your place. Additionally, I would have informed the Temple President about the incident, so that in future such incidents can be monitored. You will agree that you cannot be full time in the temple to monitor who is stealing and who is not. So we have to inform the temple authority. 

        Having seen a theft happening in front of our eyes, we have to react and stop them from stealing Krsna's property. At the same time, informing authority ensures that such matter is reported and preventive action taken. 


        Your servant

        Radha Rasamayi DD

        • Hare Krishna Radha-Rasamayi Prabhu. Thank you for your clarification.

  • Hare Krsna
    The root of Vaisnava Aparadha is to think yourself higher than other devotees.
  • Sevak

    Hare Krsna 

    I do not think there is a fixed list like it is there for offences against the holy name. Any insult, injury, harm, inconvenience done to a vaishnava by direct or indirect action or words is  vaishnav aparadha. 

    • Hare Krishna. I think it is important to observe "vaishnava aparadha". That being said, there is also an expression that says "Evil flourishes when good men do nothing". So if a devotee is doing some  kind of "wrong-doing" for example- A devotee that is  stealing from other devotees etc etc etc. I think it is important to speak up and  warn others about it. Don't let other devotees get ripped off just because you are worried about being guilty of "vaishnava aparadha".

      • E-Counselor

        Hare Krsna Mataji,


        We have been given directions on how to handle wrong doing by devotees. If we go about warning the other devotees like you mentioned, then it will result in gossip, which is prajalpa, to be avoided. The way to handle such situation, where we can see some wrong doing by a devotee, is to go to the senior of that devotee and mention the entire wrong doing. The purpose of stating everything should be to correct that devotee and stop the wrong doing, not personal ego trip. We can be doing the same thing with different intentions. THerefore, it is important that our intention behind every action is clear. 

        We are not spiritually the superior of that person, so we dont say anything to him, respect from a distance. 


        Your servant,

        Radha Rasamayi DD

        • So what happens if you don't even know the devotee's name? You don't know who the senior is of that devotee? Many many years ago I caught a thief at a Temple "in the act of stealing from the Temple". I immediately confronted the thief and I made the thief put back the stolen item. I think it was "Krishna's arrangement" that I be the one to see this because Krishna knew I would do something about it right away.

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