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Anger

Posted by Abhilasha Tripathi on July 11, 2011 at 10:43pm in Krishna

Hare Krishna,,,,

anger is one of the biggest enemy of the human...but sometimes we are forced to show our anger in order to justify ourselves in case we know that we are correct.....

so my basic query is in two parts :

a)is it justify to show anger in such a case?

b)how can the we keep ourselves apart from anger in case it is useless?

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          Jagadatma das > Malini Karuna Devi Dasi July 13, 2011 at 12:55pm
          Hare Krsna Romit.    Please give up all cursing and swearing.  If you do use them it should be for the sin and not the sinner and never in public! .   Devotees have to be asertive and not agresive or offencive to any living being either By words actions or even by thoughts.  I also recomend you do some study of communication skills.    Conflict resolution Network has free download course.   You have to get some good training so you will nicely represent Guru and Krsna.   You ae to become Known as a first class gentleman.
          • Abhilasha Tripathi > Jagadatma das July 13, 2011 at 1:49pm
            thanx.. pr...... for you suggestion to go for CRN i will try to get it in my habits surely...
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              Jagadatma das > Abhilasha Tripathi July 15, 2011 at 10:18pm
              Hare Krsna Romitji,  There has been many questions.I thought Ill do this one later . Shastr says.     So if you cannot do anything to change the offencive behaviour of someone by patiently giving good advice.   Then leave that place where your dearmost Lord and His servants are being defamed.  Dont even look at their face.   But if you are unable to leave that place and may even be under their control then you have to tolerate it.   Just remember how Devaki and Vasudev had to tollerate Kamsas persecution.  If there is nothing I can do about it I have to accept it as my owm ill fate.        If someone persecutes you and you remain silent and do not fight them all your sinful reactions  will be transfered to them and all their piety will be given to you.  Even the duration of their life will be reduced and they will go to hell.  But if you offer them a fight physical or verbal you will become entangled in reactions of your activities.  Of course Krsna protects His devotees but we must know we will get reactions if we act without comsideration of shastra. Rember how the Pandavas had to tollerate so many insults but in the end Lord Sri Krsna personally came and saved them.  If you fix yourself in this higher level of Krsna consciousness you will become very dear to Krsna. It is a matter of comlete faith in the words of the scriptures and your surrender to Krsna,s will.
              • Bijoy Krishna Debnath > Jagadatma das July 15, 2011 at 10:56pm

                Hare Krsna!

                 

                Although this is intended for another person...I find it very informative and have learned from this.

                 

                Thank you prabhu.

                 

                P.S. Could somebody please explain the words 'anarthas', what does this mean?

        • Abhilasha Tripathi > Malini Karuna Devi Dasi July 12, 2011 at 11:37pm

          hare krishna romit pr..,

          i have read in guru gita that if some one is insultin your guru then you should leave the company of that person 

          and if at some place your guru is being criticized then you should leave that place...

          and as sudheendra prabhu said that if anger is for he gratification of krishna then it is appropriate..

          you can simply convince the person by letting him know that whatever he is speaking is not appropriate....but still if the person doesnt get it then you should make a distance from him....

          hare krishna

          prabhuji and mataji rectify my view where ever you find it wrong

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