(1) smaranam - One should not think of the opposite sex.
Memorize favorite passages or verses from the sastras.
(2) kirtanam - One should not talk of sex life (prajalpa)
Practice gravity, chant japa nicely
(3) kelih - Don't play or dally with the opposite sex
always engaged positively in K.C.
(4) preksanam - Don't look lustfully at the opposite sex.
Focus your eyes (or remember) on your favorite Deity form of the Lord.
(5) guhyabhasanam - Don't talk intimately with the opposite sex in a secluded place
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