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What things are necessary while deciding marraige partner in K.C.

Posted by nilesh4peace on February 26, 2010 at 11:35am

due to my insignificant vision,intellegence i am not able to decide what things we should look for . is kundli is important to see before marriage? do we need to consider mangal(marc) effect on life of devotee ?

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  • k.s. Subramanian June 16, 2010 at 6:08pm
    In my humble opinion, a devotee is best advised to get married to another devotee. Of course this is no guarantee for a happy married life ever after. But, that is not the goal of devotees either. As they serve the Lord together, there are bound to be differences, as no 2 souls are same. However, depending on the sincereity of the parties, they advance in KC and get rapidly purified of the material contaminations. Besides, the wonderful attitude of accepting every thing as mercy of krtishna will ensure that they stay together always.
    Astrology is only for people who are looking for the bullock cart process of dharma, artha kama and moksha. The devotee on the aeroplane of Krishna Prem needs no such crutches.

    Hrae Krishna!
  • lalit singh June 5, 2010 at 4:42pm
    hare Krishna, Jab full surrender kar diya to kundali is not more than a piece of paper.Lord Krishna personally takes charges of his devotees life.( Krishna himself has proved so many times).It is only our Beolved nandlal that can become charioteer of his devotee. Jai Jai radhey shyam sundar ki...........:)
  • R Pandit June 5, 2010 at 6:28am
    Hare Krishna,

    Recently came across one article ( link below ) on grihasta life. I scrim though it quickly and found it interesting. Just thought if it helps whoever reads it. This was compiled under the instructions of senior disciples.

    http://www.scribd.com/doc/14796153/-ISKCON-desire-tree-Grihastha-Ma...
  • nimmi March 4, 2010 at 12:01pm
    hare krishna, i think the surrender to God by both the partners is much necessary condition bcoz if both the person have spiritual awakening then no problem will occur with them, and they both can enlighten each other by dedicating them to God.
    • ANAMIKA ROYCHOWDHURY > nimmi June 13, 2010 at 11:51am
      RADHE RADHE EXACTLY UR ABSOLUTELY RIGHT
    • geeta kakkar > nimmi March 4, 2010 at 9:29pm
      Radhe Radhe,
      Nice thoughts.

      Take care.
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    Sarvopama dasa ACBSP February 26, 2010 at 10:12pm
    If the man doesn't know how to manage his ojas shakti properly the likelihood of divorce increases.
    • Dr.Rita Bhandari > Sarvopama dasa ACBSP June 12, 2010 at 12:16am
      haribol,
      prabhuji wat is ojas shakti.
    • nimmi > Manash De March 4, 2010 at 11:58am
      hare krishna, very nice thoughts and a good answer to those belive in janamkundle rather than karamkundli
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