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but at times i feel whether things will be fine even post marriage....and second thought comes that i need not worry about anything coz lord is there and whatever he gives is acceptable to me...coz i will be in his abode...but please clarify my doubt as to how do i get relieved of my doubts and without a second thought just feel that things will be fine
Here to explain you in detail I would like to remind you a story of Draupadi Cheer Haran from Mahabharat. You must have heard it so many times, but not with the following "Bhava".
Draupadi was trying hard to protect her chastity by pulling her sari with both the hands and full strenth and power she had, and simultaneously she was crying "Krsna Bachao Krsna Bachao". But Krsna was all this while sitting with a cute naughty smile on his face and doing nothing. Ultimately when Draupadi's whole power and strength exhausted, she took off her both hands from the sari and cried loudly Krsna please help protect my chastity. With both her hands up in the sky she was crying "Prabhu Bachao, Krsna Bachao" and immediately Krsna draped his Golden Pitambar around Draupadi and saved her chastity.
So Amrita your problem lies in believing yourself and at the sametime believing in Krsna. You have used nine times the word "i" and only 2 times the word "Krsna" this shows the intensity of your Surrender to Krsna, like draupadi pulling her sari and in between sometimes praying to Krsna. The moment you leave this "i" and that too will be possible only by mercy of Krsna you will have no second thoughts coming to your mind. So pray for his mercy to forget your "i" and take a deep dive in Krsna's affectionate, bottomless SEA. You cannot ride in two Boats one of "i" and the other of "Krsna" you will have to chose either of them.
Let you family match the kundali as per their belief, what difference will it make. The things to happen are decided by Krsna, you cannot avoid them. It is that simple accept it as Krsna's choice.
I tell you it is difficult for you to believe this because you believe in yourself and have not surrendered completely to Krsna " Mamekam Sharanam......... and I will relieve you of all your problems...
Hare Krsna !