Hare Krishna
I need advice on how to manage my mind better. Everyone around me has a boyfriend. I feel attracted to some boys and at the same time i know my family won't allow it. How can I control my mind from this? Please help me, I dont want to hurt my family.
Your servant
Gowri Krishna
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Acknowledge and accept your feelings without rushing to act on them, as attraction is natural. Focus on personal growth and Incredibox Colorbox Mustard mindfulness, which can help shift your focus and provide a sense of control over your thoughts.
Thank you, but Krishna gives me more mindfullness than anything else
Hare Krsna Mataji,
PAMHO.
This is the best deterrent, that family will not permit any relationship. Knowing this very well, preserve yourself for the one person who is bound to come in your life, at the right time. Both of you will rejoice that you could do so then.
Regarding how to preserve yourself, it is good to associate with persons who are like minded devotees, with whom one can make friendship and grow in devotion. Then the constant distraction that everyone else has a boyfriend and I dont will reduce.You will be able to enjoy with other devotee girls. Chant with them, dance with them in kirtan and arati, read scriptures with them and basically hang out with them. Eat prasadam, ... the works.
Enjoy.
Haribol,
Your servant,
Radha Rasamayi DD
thank you mataji
hare krsna...
first thing you need is good association, every one around you seems materialistic and interested increasing lust. So have good association first, then eat satvik food to reduce your lust of having a relationship or falling to the trap. Then increase your mode of goodness, satva guna by reading, hearing and chanting.
thank you prabhu