Hello sir/mam. Want to share something with u. I have made a very sweet friend. 1 month of friendship in office, but since we r so highly like minded n similar in behavior, attitude, habits n everything we became very good friends n a very short while. We both like each other so much n everything going so well. One day i discussed with her about divinity n celibate life. Listening to this, she reacted to me as if i m an alien.
When i tried to explain her the logic behind why looking at women makes me feel guilty, she said i m mad. I explained her that when i look at some woman with wrong thoughts it feels like m abusing my own sister n mamma. She instead of adopting my thoughts, started thinking that i m abnormal. she doubted me to be impotent, gay or bisexual. She said If men n women dont have physical relations, there s no fun in life. I just broke from inside after hearing this. A girl for whom i had so much of respect, talks like this.
n afterall, gradually she was becoming my inspiration to keep my divinity maintained, n guard myself from dirty thoughts. I need a cause to remain pure. Her these words just shattered me into pieces. M shattered sir m shattered.
The above notes, i had written a week ago to post but could not get time to post it, More new things happened after that.
I talked about this to one of my best friends who knows in n out of me. He made me understand that this kind of understanding is not possible to have by everyone and afterall this is a normal feeling which every human has. I was able to overcome this becoz I could have the understanding to it.
Everyone doesnt have that. So he asked me not to be sad and asked to let her go the way she is and go on. But I have decided I will not let her go but will try to change her. Sir/mam how can i change her thoughts? How can i put in her mind that this is wrong and change her views?