Hare krishna devotees, Glories to Srila Prabhupada
Sorry devotees I have a out of books question, I was harrased and bullied by a guy in school, I had passed out school 4 years ago but I have anxiety thoughts related to him, and I was in depression because of him,should I block him on social media or let him be unblocked, actually my question is that should we have zero ego or little bit ego for ourselves as blocking someone is also a part of ego. Saints and devotees say that zero ego leads to liberation and forgive every person who hurt you but if I unblock my bully, it decreases my self respect and confidence and if I block him, it increases hatred in my heart. What will Lord Krishna advice me and how can I move forward?? Lord krishna devotees are themselves part of sri krsna so that's my I am asking for advice.
Thanks and regards, hoping for your advices
Hare krishna, radhe radhe
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Hare Krishna,
Well, forget about ego. Your peace of mind is most important. You are still holding him in the head and heart. Blocking on social media yet thinking about him a big issue.
You block him from your mind rather.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=boRV7otSwfI
watch the video you will understand what I am saying.
we may block the bully or unblock the past cannot be earsed. But if you hold on to the insult or hurt that is going to negatively effect you.
Try to forget such people .. instead of blocking unblocking drama. Try to focus on something more higher and more superior than these small petty things which are occpying ur head.
Hare Krishna
Thank you mataji so much , forever indebted to you, Hare krishna radhe radhe
I have got one question, how does harassing and bullying will be stopped just by blocking him, should you tell your teachers and parents about it.
Nah this was during school time, now it's been 4 years since I passed out school
So what happened suddenly?
No nothing happened suddenly but I have this hurt inside my head from past 4 years, that's why I written this comment
Then maybe than tolerating you have to ,earn about forgiving and FORGETTING. May Krishna bless you with enough mental strength to just forget all that (I know it's not that easy)
Hare Krishna
I can forgive almost everyone, but hurt is so much as he was vindictive also. even after unblocking him my mind says he deserves to be blocked. Idk what's right or wrong
Hare krishna , radhe radhe
Vindictive against you? What did you do to him?
Radhe Radhe Shyam
Nothing, even I don't know why he did that, I could just think that he must be jealous I don't know
Radhe radhe
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