All of us have some emotions and possessiveness. I don't understand why Krishna would like gopis who are wives of others. Even the men who married gopis are his children only, then why Krishna chose to hurt their feelings. How does any man will feel when he comes to know that his wife is secretly in love with someone else. I know Krishna wants to show that he is above all but still why does he let gopis marry these poor guys making them scapegoat. Why gopis didn't dedicated their life to Krishna without marrying. I don't understand how this can be justified on spiritual platform.
I don't understand Krishna lilas may be that is the reason I like Ram avatar more.