Hare Krsna,
PAMHO AGSTP
Dear Devotees,
I am little bit confuse about the decision for my future life...coz as my parents are forcing me to get marry as I m already 25 and it is also written in the Scripture that it's the best age for getting marry.
But at the same point it's also very difficult to find a partner who is able to understand KC as we live in this material world, and People are too much involved materially these days...
Please help me....
Servant of the Servant..
Lokesh
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my humble obeisances dear Devotees, ]
it is so because if one enters into grihastha life on time he has time to have children and raise them and marry them so within 25 years he will be able to finish up with grihastha life and enter into vanaprastha.
So it is very good if one does everything on time as a duty.
Concerning to marry to non Devotee girls or to Devotees then please marry to a suitable Devotee girl accepting it as a service to a Vaishnavi. They are many nice Devotee girls.
Your servant,
Hare Krsna Maral Mataji,
Please accept my humble obeisances, all glories to Srila Prabhupad....
Thanks for your suggestion but I found it really hard to find a suitable devotee girl even I have posted my details on Marryadevotee.com and other sites of vaishnava's marrige...
I am understand the plan of Krsna.....Please pray for me..
Servant of servant
Lokesh
if You follow nice sadhana, strictly follow 4 regulative principles, chant minimum 16 rounds, reduce lusty desires and train Your mind to be always Krishna Conscious and int his way become a nice Devotee who can control his mind and senses then surely Krishna will give You a nice life partner.
The problem is many men are lusty and do not follow 4 regulative principles in family life, they become lazy, they do not wake up for Mangala Arati and do not read Shrimad Bhagavatam, and as a result try to commit sinful acts in family life by using sense enjoyment just for the sake of enjoying them. Or they become fat because of laziness ...all these things play enough big role in family affairs, aren't they?
It is the problem of why some nice girls do not want to get married to some boys.
If Devotee man becomes very strong in Sadhana, if one reads and does his responsibilities then for sure Srila Prabhupada personally will search for suitable partner.
Your servant,
my humble obeisances Prabhuji,
I do not know if my prayers have some value but even though will pray and try to help.
Pray so that Your problem will be in the consideration of all Devotees and that they try to help You to solve it as if it is their own problem.
Your servant,
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take your time, no need to rush.
do You think Anand Prabhuji, to get married on time is called as rushing? 25 is almost the last age for marriage if ideally. And for girls 13. But because these days, for sure because of our bad karma, no senior parent cares about sons and daughters or cares less.
So why not to make others' problems as like our own and try to solve them?
Again it is not rushing. Indeed it is better to finish up with family life on time and enter into vanaprastha life on time.
Don't You think so? and please forgive me for being so straight forward!
Your servant,
do You think Anand Prabhuji, to get married on time is called as rushing? 25 is almost the last age for marriage if ideally.
..........No, 25 is not the last age for marriage, srila Prabhupada said 30.
And for girls 13
........Any sastric reference ?
. But because these days, for sure because of our bad karma, no senior parent cares about sons and daughters or cares less.
So why not to make others' problems as like our own and try to solve them?
Again it is not rushing. Indeed it is better to finish up with family life on time and enter into vanaprastha life on time.
Srila Prabhupada said, best is not to get married for boys.
Don't You think so? and please forgive me for being so straight forward!