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Can anyone tell me how to overcome suicidal thoughts?? Plssssss

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Hare Krsna

By deeply uderstanding that self destruction is not a possibility. Sri Krsna says in BG that we are eternal 

avināśi tu tad viddhi
yena sarvam idaṁ tatam
vināśam avyayasyāsya
na kaścit kartum arhati
That which pervades the entire body you should know to be indestructible. No one is able to destroy that imperishable soul. (BG 2.17)
Suicidal thoughts are due to prominence of mode of ignorance and painful/ tragic events. We have to learn to deal with them. 
1. We have to rise above mode of ignorance by improving our behavior, inputs & lifestyle - We have to associate and take inputs which are in mode of goodness. 
2. Whatever pain we are currently going through, it is capable of liberating us if we deal with it in the right attitude. The right attitude is this -
tat te ’nukampāṁ su-samīkṣamāṇo
 bhuñjāna evātma-kṛtaṁ vipākam
hṛd-vāg-vapurbhir vidadhan namas te
 jīveta yo mukti-pade sa dāya-bhāk
My dear Lord, one who earnestly waits for You to bestow Your causeless mercy upon him, all the while patiently suffering the reactions of his past misdeeds and offering You respectful obeisances with his heart, words and body, is surely eligible for liberation, for it has become his rightful claim. (SB 10.14.8)
When we are put in difficult situations, we have to see it as an opportunity to go closer to Krsna. In normal course of life we are too grossly engaged without own material attachments, we can't see them as attachments, but in difficult situations we can see them as material attachments.
If we can THANK Lord Krsna saying I deserve much worse due to my karma, yet you have given me so little of that, I heartily accept it by depending on you. Then to such a person liberation will be be granted. These are words of Lord Brahma from Srimand Bhagavatam. 
But we need to take shelter of Sri Krsna more intensely. 
Hare Krsna

Thanks Prabhu..Hare Krsna

Thanks a lot prabhu...Hare Krsna..

Hare Krsna Prabhuji,


When we read scriptures, we realise that we are not the body, we are soul. That the body perishes, the soul never perishes. So if we want to end the body by committing suicide, it is not going to solve our problem, because the soul never perishes. We will have to undergo same misery in next birth, in fact it can even be magnified because of the added karma of having committed suicide. So if committing suicide is not going to solve our problem, rather it will compound the probklem, then why commit suicide?

You could read, understand and meditate on Shloka 2.14 of Bhagavad Gita - matra sparsatu talks about the impermanence of happiness and distress, how they keep coming like changing seasons and how one has to be steady in the face of both, happiness and distress. This shloka helps to form a balance and not be too disturbed by either happiness or by distress.


Your servant,

Radha Rasamayi DD

Thank u soo much..mathaji..Is commiting suicide a sin?

Yes prabhuji. Committing suicide is a sin - materially as well as spiritually. 

You know you can be arrested for attempting suicide. Spiritually it is considered a sin because we get a life form due to our past karma and desire. We suffer or enjoy in any lie because of our karma. At the same time, the purpose of that life is for the soul to evolve (by experiencing various sufferings and happinesses). By ending the life ourselves, we are denying the soul the growth it is supposed to have while staying in this body. In fact, the soul doesnt even get a gross body for some time after committing suicide.

Suppose the intended lifetime in that body is 70 years, a person commits suicide at 30. Balance 40 years, it will not get another gross body. It will remain in ghost body. That is very painful experience for the soul. Every soul takes on a gross body to enjoy through the senses of that body. Thats why no gross body means no enjoyment. 

On the other hand, if one takes a step back in times of extreme sorrow and thinks - this too shall pass - it is able to tolerate the pain and surely it passes. Then life goes on as usual - alternating between pain and pleasure.

Not at all a good idea to attempt suicide prabhuji.


THANKS a Lot MATHAJI..But at times I feel to do so nd cant control myself..

Hare Krishna ,  Always be in association of devotees , I always feel that people get lonely and start think on their own and way to over come their Grief or problems . share issues with senior devotees or whom u can confide too and always think that this world is Dukhalayam and all are  suffering  here in one way or the other .



Sure prabhuji..Thanks..HK..

Krishna did say "From the highest planet to the loest, all are places where-in repeatedly re-berth & death are taking place! So running from misery.. & to start over in another body sounts offel.
I have heard the compareasum, that we are (because we are Karmicly illiterate) & so dull witted/physical. We are (Falling Souls,) *Karma is tarring us down; so it's as if Krishna has put a STOP to our fall by giving us this chance to calmly re-evaluate our subtal attatueds & gross activates & to Cognacently evolk & directly experience the liberating & clarifying resultes of pulling down the creeper of God's enerjetic awairness.
The more *direct Association we/one can arrang fir in one's life/-time to less our attractions will be for the Mundain anything*
As KARMA is accually a delusion of the mind of one's accual constitutional posision, and another of God's servents, He can call it off.
So feel the HolyName's vibrations within you! Chant in such a way that the body is rocked by it inside & out!
I.e. sit down call upon Vishnu Use OM, then chant salutation to Sri Chatonyah & the (HNSM) hareNamaSainkiertinna movement. The begin calling on Krishna's names. Once your form is liborated & your mind & it's sinces are subdued. All your faculties will have an opportunity to rest & relax thus you will become energetically revitalised.
Haveing more energies than when you first sat down, a much needed rest, this is a fundamental binnafit of chanting, i.e. mental & physical rest. "They capture the activity of the mind & therefore all the sinces become innate" a poem describing the qualities of the Holy Names.
Take (10), i.e. Take some-
time off from self awareness, frim karmic worry & all things Mundain. & simply serve by chanting Krishna is going to use your service of chanting to in-turn serve you. Without that chanting unfortunately that connection our reciprocation cannot & will not be going on. & a relationship will not be forming at all!
So an hour or two dedacated to our relatiinship with God is a small pennants. Makeing Him the star of the show, & the object of our attractions & adoration s. ?
Dundavats* lay flat on face to sepporate fully from Mya. Slowly rise
(Staying low) & begin your chanting from there. Dive deep-thenStay low then chant- ficused on your favoret form as your "Vibration filled gaze moves up gradually from Hi's feet to Hi's smiling face. Krishna din't panic Krishna is the Coolest of the Cool so you be cool too. Please din't go anywhere. Things are just heating up, every home is a Hotel, every car is a Cab, soo free electricity self driving cars. Soon Life around hear is going to get a lot better for everyOne. Just see the Golden information age that is now upon us what ever the Question' just Giggle it! Come on kiD
This personal apperence of The GeadGod Him self happens Once in the four seasions of time. & that's a very very long time please don't take any un nessasary chances like that be greatfull you have a job* serving God's mission(s) of which one is' to cherish that body & all others for Hi's name sake! Ok?

Thanks prabhu..Hare Krsna..


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