How to "let go" the things we desire most?

Now we are not as great souls as Priyavrat Maharaj or swayambhu Manu or some other people whose life stories are mentioned in Bhagwatam like Jada Bharata who could enjoy reigning their kingdom and had many queens and concubines and enjoyed life to the fullest extreme and when they became old they left everything to their sons and left the kingdom and fled to jungles to practice renunciate life.

Now It is Lord Brahma's dictation to make progeny and reign kingdom they did activities very nicely conducted material life made babies ruled kinddom and with UTMOST EASE they could leave the kingdom and go also when time came.

But we are we able to " let go" of things so easily??

Yeah I know we are not great as those Priyavrat Maharaj and Jada Bharata etc. But we too much clingy to the things which possesses. How to let go of these ??

Because We are all proceeding to death and we know death is going to engulf some day and we should leave all our possessions here and go so we should be mentally prepared for this.

We own a small house. small plot or some jewellery, max. 1 wife, max 1 or 2 kids.

But we are so possessive of these and have developed attachements to these.

Look at these Maharaja's who ruled the kingdoms....had so much property lands and jewellery and money power so many people serving them. so many kids they made ( each maharaj had min. 4-10 mistresses and many kids also.

But how did they leave all these and go?

I am still puzzled that Jada Bharata ji who left all his family, kingship and kingdom and also his own sons, wives  behind feld to jungles got so clingy to a deer. that he couldn't bear to even leave it and die in peace.

If such great souls only couldn't overcome attachements then how are we supposed to overcome it?

we are just ordinary souls. 

How can we get rid of the attachements?

 

 

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  • HARE KRISHNA,

    THE ANSWER TO IT IS. DEATTACHMENT IS NEXT TO IMPOSSIBLE.

    GETTING ATTACHED TO KRISHNA IS POSSIBLE.

    ONE must develop love for the supreme lord.

    MIND HAS ONE QUALITY THAT WHATEVER SUBJECT OR PERSON OR PLACE OR THING WE DEVELOP LIKING FOR WE GET CLINGY ( ATTACHED TO IT) BECAUSE MIND IS MADE IN SUCH A WAY THAT MIND's onlY QUALITY IS TO GET ATTACHED TO SOMETHING.

    BE IT KRISHNA OR BE IT MATERIAL WORLD.

    IF YOU ARE NOT ABLE TO REMOVE URSELF FROM MAYA.

    ONLY WAY IS GET ATTACHED TO KRISHNA.

    Krishna will remove from us from all maya.

    THAT IS WHY it is states in the dark ages of kali-

    the only way only way only way is HARER NAMAIAVA KEVALAM!!!

    NO OTHER WAY NO OTHER WAY NO OTHER WAY.

    harer nāma harer nāma harer nāmaiva kevalam
    kalau nāsty eva nāsty eva nāsty eva gatir anyathā

    MIND GETS INSTANTLY GET ABSORBED AND ATTACHED TO SOME TOPIC WHICH YOU GIVE. GIVE YOUR MIND HOLY NAME  AND IT KEEPS ON CHANTING IT DAY AND NIGHT.

    AND THAT IS HOW WE LOSE ATTACHMENT TO MATERIAL WORLD IN THIS KALIYUGA. NO OTHER WAY needed.

    https://www.youtube.com/shorts/SFrZd99l7gk

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    • Btw I also read Bhagwatam. You are reading it but doesn't mean i am haven't read.I did read page to page like you did.

      I also know that Bharat maharaj is great but I want to know how they got that much renunciation.

      IT IS BECAUSE OF BLESSING FROM GURU. ( NARAD MUNI OR SOME OTHER MUNI WHO ARE VERY VERY Powerful guru's)

      reading something doens't make us dettached ..

      we need higher blessing. some guru kripa

      some special blessings from Krishna directly 

      Text 38: By the grace of the Supreme Personality of Godhead, Mahārāja Priyavrata reawakened to his senses. He divided all his earthly possessions among his obedient sons. He gave up everything, including his wife, with whom he had enjoyed so much sense gratification, and his great and opulent kingdom, and he completely renounced all attachment. His heart, having been cleansed, became a place of pastimes for the Supreme Personality of Godhead. Thus he was able to return to the path of Kṛṣṇa consciousness, spiritual life, and resume the position he had attained by the grace of the great saint Nārada.

      SB 5.1.38
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      • Mahārāja Priyavrata acted very wonderfully in the material field of activities, but because he was dealing in sense gratification — ruling his kingdom and dancing to the indications of his beautiful wife

        " acting " as henpecked husband?

         

        • Text 36: While enjoying his material opulences with full strength and influence, Mahārāja Priyavrata once began to consider that although he had fully surrendered to the great saint Nārada and was actually on the path of Kṛṣṇa consciousness, he had somehow become again entangled in material activities. Thus his mind now became restless, and he began to speak in a spirit of renunciation.
          Text 37: The King thus began criticizing himself: Alas, how condemned I have become because of my sense gratification! I have now fallen into material enjoyment, which is exactly like a covered well. I have had enough! I am not going to enjoy any more. Just see how I have become like a dancing monkey in the hands of my wife. Because of this, I am condemned.
          SB 5.1.36
          • "ALTHOUGH FULLY SURRENDERED TO NARD MUNI HE GOT ENTANGLED IN MATERIAL LIFE"

            That means there is no chance for us normal people!!! to get detattached .

            Itte bade muni ke sangati mein rehte hue bhi yeh maharaj entangle hosakte hai material life mein??

            where is the question of becoming dettached from material life for normal people like us?

        • then he got disgusted and condemned his wife. 

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          • no prabhu. He got entangled.

            Mahārāja Priyavrata once began to consider that although he had fully surre

            ndered to the great saint Nārada and was actually on the path of Kṛṣṇa consciousness, he had somehow become again entangled in material activites

            THOUGH HE GOT BLESSING FROM SAGE NARADA HIMSELF HE GOT ENTANGLED IN FAMILY LIFE AND STARTED TO GET ATTACHED AND WHEN HE REALIZED HE GOT BLESSED BY KRISHNA AGAIN TO REGAIN HIS SENSES BACK.

        • Hare krishna..ofcourse they are first generation kings.. directly coming from brahma. they must have lot of detattchement from begining.

          But we are degraded people na

          I am talking about us 

          how to become dettached.. read the question carefully. till the end.

          How do we get dettaachement? 

          • Yeh log toh satyuga mein the.. their minds were not so polluted also.

            but we are all in Kaliyuga.

            and reading these life stories of these maha purush .. it is nice to read but can we become dettached like them?

            some day we have to learn this art na?

            can you tell how to?

            • First thing is Narad muni came to them. They were closest to brahma ji as they were first born and in Satyuga. They got enlightenment because NARAD MUNI WAS THEIR GURU.

              that is the greatness of the guru.

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