Hare Krsna ,
All glories to Srila Prabhupada ,
We must follow four regulative principle throughout our life ,
after reading a blog at this link
http://www.iskcondesiretree.net/profiles/blogs/the-natural-ambition-of-a-girl
I have confusion what is the guarantee that devotees will follow four regulative after marriage ,
And remember Krsna with as much devotion as earlier !!
And also will not marriage lead to Aasakti( Deep Affection ) .
As we should have deep affection toward Krsna only !!
Sorry for all offences !!
Hare Krsna !!
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Hare Krsna
Pamho.
That is the reason both boy and girl should have undergone a rigorous training of following the principles strictly before marriage and that is why we are supposed to take KC as early as possible and with top most sincerity and priority.If they have practised it sincerely for a long period of time before marriage and after marriage also, they take strong association regularly, then they will be able to follow the principles very nicely and comfortably.
Do u know how a lion is controlled? Starve it for 4 days and then when you whip it, it will follow your orders.Our senses are like hungry lions.Starve them of all sense enjoyment,and not only starve them, engage them in KC service, then once they get the higher taste of Krsna conscious enjoyment in chanting,dancing,serving Vaishnavas(not material sense gratification), they will never look for filty 10th class pleasure of sense gratification.
It is like a hungry person desiring for food.If he does not have anything good to eat,he will eat whatever he gets,even if that is bad for him,like rotten and spoilt chira.If we give him Halwa,puri, sweet rice, and lots and lots of wonderful items(prasad) to eat, he will never even look onto that spoilt food.Infact he will look at it with distaste.That is what happens when a person sincerly chants,follows regulative principles and serves Vaishnavas.He loses taste in sense gratification and has only 1 desire-to serve and please Krsna in as many ways as possible and as nicely as possible.
Please forgive me if I said something that offended.
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rakesh roshan