Difficulties in samskara for having a good child

Hare Krishna, Dandvat Pranam!!

I was reading this blog https://iskcondesiretree.com/profiles/blogs/samskara-for-having-a-child and have questions.

So for having good child we have to see

  • good tithis (Sexual union must also be avoided on days of vrata and fasting, such as ekadasi, and on the parva days (full moon, dark moon, astami and caturdasi tithis, as well as sankranti, when the sun passes into a new zodiac sign) when the body is in weak condition, and the days when the moon passes throught the same naksatra as at ones birth.)

  • good days (Forbidden days - Sunday, Tuesday, Saturday)

  • good nakshatra (Forbidden Naksatra: contact should be avoided when the moon is in the following constellations: bharani, krttika, ardra, aslesa, magha, purvaphalguni, visakha, jyestha, purvasada, purvabhadra)

  • Forbidden days- first six, 11, 13 of cycle

  • I have to consider even days as I want SON 

So all these points does not satisfy in one day. In 1 month we get approx 3 days which satisfy all conditions. Me and my wife are of 29. So she has age now. I am also getting pressure from family and wife for having child because of age.

Now I am totally hopeless. For two months no good days came.

I need guidance. I can't wait for a long time. Please help me.

Hare Krishna!

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  • E-Counselor

    Hare Krsna Prabhuji,

    PAMHO.

    Happy to see your sincerity in trying to follow the guidelines. 

    Practically, what I have heard from senior devotees is that we take care of festival dates like Janmashtami, Gaur Purnima etc. We can even take care of ekadasi. Rest, it doesnt work to be so strict. We have to follow the body clock as well. 

    What senior devotees advise is - both the couple have to chant 50 rounds of mahamantra that day. Try to follow to the extent possible. 

    Best of luck. I hope Krsna sends a good devotee soul to you as child soon.

    Haribol,

    Your servant,

    Radha Rasamayi DD

    • Thank you so much Radha Rasamayi DD . I really appreciate your response and thank you for blessings smile !

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      • Thank you so much Madhava das for response. I will defintely try to do 50 rounds on that day. Please give me blessings for good child. Thank you!

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