We can study the example of a topmost Vais.n.avi, Queen Kunti-, who prayed for calamity to remember her Lord again and again. Of course, she is the personified zenith of devotional dependence, but we can greatly benefit by trying to at least get a glimpse of her mood.
SB 1.8.25
vipadah. santu ta-h. s’as’vat tatra tatra jagad-guro
bhavato dars’anam. yat sya-d apunar bhava-dars’anam
I wish that all those calamities would happen again and again so that we could see You again and again, for seeing