Hare Krishna dear Devotees,
Please accept my humble obeisances!
All glories to Srila Prabhupada!
Here we will paste anonymous questions and answers to them.
If You are receiving questions from new comers to Your personal mail box then please share them here but without the name of a person who asked the question. Some may feel shy and discomfort to ask openly so they ask some senior Devotees...
Thank You!
Your servant, bhaktin maral
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Hare Krishna Manisha mataji! First of all I like your question which is a common complain among us. With my small fund of knowledge I would try to answer your question.
- we need to find out what is the underlying reason why someone behaving unexpectedly.
- we have to avoid anger and should not jump to the conclusion from his/her behaviour at a certain situation
- Someone's prejudiced behaviour is not based on reason or actual experience. That means the person is acting only to hurt you because somehow he/she was hurt from your direct or indirect behaviour or action.
- Instead of becoming angry or upset for his/her behaviour, we should openly ask him or find out what is the cause of misunderstanding.
- Once the reason is known, it would be easy to explain him/her that what was perceived from your unwanted action/ behaviour was baseless.
- it is most important to talk to the person openly in a humble manner avoiding anger and make the person understand your actual position.
- in any situation, we have to act/react sensibly and make other person understand our honesty, sincerity and openness. Nothing wrong asking to forgive if he/she got hurt because of my unintentional behaviour.
-if you can make the person understand you then his/her anger will go away and will become a friend again.
I understand it is a difficult situation to overcome. However, if you handle the situation in cool brain, you will not only be able to avoid further consequences, but also help him understand that prejudiced actions are not always appropriate.
Hope it helps.
Hare Krishna and accept my pranam.
Amal
Hare Krishna when we lie down in front of Thakur ji, How we should lie down. when are leg should face and where or hand should be.
Hare Krishna,
thank you Mataji for joining in your group and giving the support and guidance to imporve more and more and serve Krishna.
Hare Krishna, Mataji...
Its really very nice service and let more persons come forward and join + share similar queries here.
May Lord Krishna bless you with good health to serve Him more better...
Hare Krishna.