“So in your letter you are not finding fault with anyone. So you are good Vaisnava. You do not find fault with anyone. This is the qualification. We should always think ourselves very humble and meek. This you must know.
So we have to all cooperate amongst ourselves, otherwise what will people think if we ourselves fight with one another? A devotee is always ideal in behavior.” (Srila Prabhupada letter, December 12, 1974) Ayodhyadeva dasa: If with devotees we become like flies and feel the “need” to criticize tell outrageous lies their “faults” advertise falldowns publicize or we heavily chastise dislike or even despise stigmatize demonize scandalize minimize polarize or want to terrorize maybe even ostracize it may come as a surprise but the wise advise and emphasize that we have to realize and recognize the need to apologize with tears in the eyes otherwise as our enthusiasm dies and our own problems arise this attitude will cause our demise, the boat we are on is going to capsize our spiritual life we will surely jeopardize anything we have achieved will vaporize and thus we can wave our own bhakti bye byes
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