From our childhood in our academics, so many times we have been taught that human is a social animal and he can not live without interactions. When we interact with the other persons, we are bound to built up some sort of relationship. That interactions lead to relationships and relationships implies expectations. Any relationship sustains, because there is a constant exchange of expectations and its fulfillment. The movement there is any insufficiency of reciprocation relationship gets strained. So, it is very much necessary that we understand what is that which will make the other person rich within heart and happy.
Every person has different level of expectations and on a different level they get satisfied. According to the studies it is said that there are five way of expressing one's love and concern to other persons.
Time: For some people spending time together is the greatest way of feeling loved and cared. Here intention hardly matters. E.g. In some cases If husband gives attention to his wife and give her quality time to hear her and just to be with her she will be satisfied.
Words of Appreciation: This is the easiest way of expressing one's feeling. There is no tangible loss in this type of reciprocation and fill heart of beloved with joy. E.g. When women cooks for entire family, she only seek a word of appreciation that food is good. Only to hear few words of appreciation she will cook whole day without bothering for personal comfort and inconveniences.
Service: Some people dont get satisfied with time, appreciation or gift. But they can easily get satisfied if we show some action to serve them and render some tangible service. These kinds of people are very self conscious and think that how other person can help him to share his responsibility without sharing credit.
Gift: Some people always seek tangible things in hand to feel of being loved. Like children; for them when parents award them some gift they will always be happy and ready to do as parents say.
Touch: Some people are very emotional and always seek some sort of expression of physical affection. Like hugs, shake hands, kisses. That will give them sense of belongingness. Like a small child lovingly touched by mother, wife by husband.
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