I have heard devotees saying,just keep desire & put in efforts( Japa),Krishna will surely show you the way.This is when things don't go as we wish.How long do we wait & how do we understand his directions?

We have to listen lectures. They are very powerful. And by hearing pure souls we will be also purified and with purified heart we will be able to see things in a real way.

We lived for billions of lives. We committed unlimited sins and to ask Krishna that why i am not yet purified is very foolish. Our heart is covered with tons and tons of dirt. If we see all those bad sins we won't be able to survive knowing our real position. Because of that Krishna does not show us everything. And we are peaceful. And sometimes we think that we are very great, pure.

Pure Devotees pray that they even ready to take birth 10 000 times and then be able to see the Lord. In this way let's not try to see God but serve to Him in such a way so that He will yearn to see us.