Hare Krishna Mataji.
My question is related to my marriage. Me and my fiancé is in KC since last 3 years. We both are very old friends. I met him through orkut and from there our relationship starts. That time we were not in KC, it was later on my fiancé came in touch with some devotees and enter into KC. When we met, at that time we were not that mature to understand or to differentiate what we should do or what we should not. We just know that we are in love. But I am really greatful to Krishna that he send him into my life, just because of him I am in KC. Infact after coming into KC ,we started giving more respect to each other. We understand the purpose of life and our love for each other increased more and our family is also agreed for our marriage. As such there is no problem in our life. We are happy with each other, we respect and care for each other, and now we both have one goal of life that is to contribute in the movement of Srila Prabhupada. I am just having one doubt that I want to share with you. I am 3 years elder then my prbhuji. I have read many article of Srila Prabhupada in which he said that a wife should be younger then his husband and there are many practical and genuine reasons for this and ideally a wife should be younger then her husband. But in our case its opposite. On our part we are convinced that we are going to spend our life together and we don't have any problem with this issue. May be physically I am elder then him but actually he is much much mature then me. I consider him as my mentor. In our relationship of 5 years I have never realized that I am elder then him. My concern is, will that be acceptable. Because according to scriptures this is not right. I know you must be finding me very silly but this thing is in my mind since very long time and I had no one with whom I can discuss this. I still remember that once I have told one of my Mataji friend that he is younger then me and I still remember the reaction of that mataji. Because of this I sometime feels very insecure that right now prabhu ji is saying that he does not have anyy problem but may be later on this thing might influence him also. Please help me.