The faint  line of difference ,   as they say, is thinest and super ambigious bordering between the good and the bad.  Here the right  interpretation makes all the difference. Please note, the traits considered could be clubbed under the following, if not viewed rightly.

KINDNESS — LAID DOWN & DOORMAT

REACHING OUT —  INTERFERENCE

GENIUS —   MAVERICK MADMAN

TO SHARE A PROBLEM–  A LEANING LIMPET.

SIMPLICITY IN RICH WOW! SO HUMBLE AND IN THE OTHERS  CASH STRAPPED.

BRILLIANCE IN A TOPPER–   VAIN AND VANITY.

SILENT RECLUSIVE ACHIEVERS —         HIGHLY ARROGANT  AND EGOTISTICAL AND IN OTHERS HIGH ON SELF ESTEEM              

GENUINE CONCERN — RUMOUR MONGER.

And so on…..The definition keeps shifting as per the situation, person and perception of others. To my mind, the game changer here is, one should be always ORIGINAL.  TO BE ONESELF and most importantly OURSELF. TO POSSESS AND EXPRESS  UNFILTERED THOUGHTS, ACTIONS AND WORDS AS IS WHERE IS and TO BE A UNIQUE FACE IN THE CROWD IS ALL THAT TRULY MATTERS.
Unnecessarily worrying about personal brand, public fan following and image consciousness  stifles life itself.  The worst part is one is also caught unawares and the hoodwink is exposed.
To dance joyously to the merry  tunes of freedom,  as one ardently desires in a good way, makes a difference to our emotional wellbeing which gets reflected on our superlative bliss quotient. 

We have to learn  to master the magical strokes of the varied hues  of universal synchronization and oneness and overcoming  a conditioned and an artificial external stimulus and environment.  Everything resides within us.

We need to be one hundred percent THE REAL US THAT TRULY DEFINE US.  Yes , surely, then  no great troubles of remembering, recollecing and reproducing  what one  told Whom, Why?  When and also Whether.   All completely redundant, reduced to a mere justification .  This saves countless hours of being at our wits end and constantly being under the scrutiny of others. A complete futile exercise.
The very best part here,  is this amazing  state of first , believing in a certain set of finest values, endorsing and then vouching the best ideologies in the form of self practice and not as a mere preach ,  definitely makes every moment a joyful ballet where we can happily glide through all the pairs of opposites and most importantly reach our crowning glory moments.

When implemented, it has worked for me wonderfully. Please let’s look beyond the faint lines at the actuals.