Without awareness of any relationship, love for Bhagavan cannot be experienced. It is the knowledge of relationships that gives birth to love. Even in our day to day lives, whenever someone desires to know our identity, we rattle off a string of relationships such as: 'I am the child of that mother or father,' 'I am the mother or father of that child,' 'I am the husband or wife of that person,' etc. Carrying with us the concept that our identity is comprised of such mundane types of relationships, we visit the temple, view the deities, participate in Hari-kirtana, listen to Hari-katha and go through the motions of observing various religious practices. However, we find that these observances do not take us to Sri Hari, but instead, root us ever more firmly in our family/friend relationships. These works are punya, or dharma (actions performed for future merits). They are not bhakti, or devotion. The false ego drives man to fruitive activity. This petty ego must be discarded and the all-pervading 'I' of the self must be embraced. In our daily lives, whatever we do feeds this petty ego. For example, one thinks, 'This is my wife, my child,' etc. Even when we visit the temple, it is for the interest of this false self and for all that is seemingly connected with or related to it. We do not go to the temple for Sri Bhagavan. Thus, it is only natural that we display the tendency to follow the dictates of our ego, falsely thinking that therein lies our self-interest.
The day I realize that I belong to Sri Bhagavan, that all my relationships are with Sri Bhagavan, then my real self will become manifested, and spontaneously, all my actions will be for Sri Bhagavan and Sri Bhagavan alone. Identifying my interests with those of Sri Bhagavan, I will now surrender myself and all that belongs to that self to Sri Bhagavan. Only in that specific situation is love and devotion for Sri Bhagavan possible. The grace of the bonafide guru or preceptor will enable us to realize to whom we are actually related. Prior to this knowledge of relationship, it is not possible to have any idea of Sri Bhagavan. When we do not exert much effort to understand the nature of this relationship, our realization is understandably delayed. After establishing this relationship, we can start our sadhana (spiritual practices) and begin to understand our real needs. The scriptures of sanatana-dharma and all the wise sages have discussed three important points in great detail: 1. sambandha --the conditioned soul's relationship with the Supreme Lord, 2. abhidheya --the regulated activities for reviving one's relationship with the Supreme Lord and 3. prayojana --the ultimate goal of life to be attained by the conditioned soul, i.e., Krsna-prema, love of God.
In spiritual life then, the first step is toward sambandha-jnana --knowledge of relationships."
Hare Krishna!!!
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