Characters of man and woman are quite opposite in the family. This is done by the laws of nature for our benefit. Because of that woman will never understand fully why man is angry on her and he does not value her. And man does not understand deeply woman. For example, husband comes home and she complains to him about something. He directly says her that things should be done in this and that way. And wife feels aggrieved because she knows well how to do things herself. Just with her question she wanted her husband to pay attention to her and pacify her. But how to do that interests her less. Second option: for example, husband comes home from his job and says: ‘I have problem in my job place. And I have big difficulties in solving them.’ And wife says: ‘oh in the reality you are a fool, you had to do things like this and that.’ Husband feels aggrieved and starts to hate his wife. Role of a wife is not that to point out of how much he is a foolish but to tell him: ‘it is ok dear, no matter what you will be successful. You just think and decide everything. I know that you can do it.’ He exerts himself with all his strength and succeeds. If husband and wife do not solve problems in this way then that means lack of understanding the nature of each other.

This text was translated from Russian book written by Devotee psychologist.