I won't be at home for 2-3 days because of the Upnayan-Sanskara (Thread ceremony) of my cousin. Eating onion and garlic is common there in my maternal family. People will eat in a group at the banquet. There it would be rice, pulse (contains onion), vegetables (contains onion), so how can I survive there? I cannot even request not to add onion, nor I can rebuff to go there.
There I cannot even chant. If I do so, everyone will think that I am trying to show off to be sanctimonious because they know how I was before.